Eve Gumpel
As businesswomen, we know we’ll be more productive if we stay fit and eat a balanced diet. But with the frenzied pace we usually keep, it’s tough to stay on track.
Exercise is always the first thing that drops off my list when I have a lot to do. The one constant for the past three years is the yoga class I’ve been taking at my local community college, at the bargain rate of $20 per semester.
Because it’s a class, I do a pretty good job of sticking with it. Though, truth to tell, I find yoga difficult, painful and often frustrating. My mantra: “If the pose doesn’t hurt, I’m not doing it right.” Still, I keep coming back for more.
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I know yoga is good for me. My sciatica went away for a couple of years, until I took summer and fall semester off last year and it came back. Slowly but surely, I think it’s retreating again. More than that, though, my instructor, Faye Pastel — and before her, Ann Doty — have the right attitude to make it work for me. Both are serious about yoga, but there’s a playfulness that comes through, as well. And the absolute assurance that, as long as I’m trying, whatever I do is fine.
Or maybe it’s me. I took yoga many years ago for several semesters. I wasn’t any more flexible then, despite my relative youth (probably early 30s), and I didn’t like Savasana (a relaxation pose) then any more than I like it now. Lie there and don’t think about anything? Riiiighhht. When I’m dead — I promise! But what really got to me in my younger days was the folks who, although many years my senior, were more flexible than I was and could do all the poses better than me. Competitive? Who, me?
I’m still competitive with myself — I push myself to hold the poses and try not to opt for the easier variations. But I don’t necessarily compare myself with others anymore. Maturity? Maybe.
Overall, I have to say I’ve enjoyed class this semester. Pastel is tougher on us (and probably on herself) than Doty was. Actually, I like that. Because when I leave class I feel as though I’ve had a workout. I don’t get nearly enough exercise (once-a-week yoga is a bare minimum), so there’s a sense of satisfaction in getting through class each week and knowing I’ve worked hard on behalf of my body.
Yes, I know that yoga is mental as well as physical. As I said, I don’t really like Savasana. Lying still makes me feel every ache. It’s hard not to think about my day, about unfinished business — or whatever else decides to flit through my mind. Instructions to relax various parts of my body don’t help. If I could do that, I probably wouldn’t need a yoga class. So I count it a victory if I can keep my mind blank for as long as a minute. Generally, long before Pastel’s ready for us to quit, my eyes pop open to stare at the ceiling, and I have to quell my urge to drum my fingers on the floor with impatience.
The couple of times Pastel has come by to arrange my body parts in a more relaxed pose have been amazing. Apparently, with the right knowledge, my body CAN relax. So maybe I’ll stick with this. Who knows? If I’m more mature now than I was 20 years ago, perhaps there’s hope. Perhaps someday I’ll learn to tune into the “mind” part of yoga as well as the physical attributes.











Hey Eve
Great post! I work with people who are struggling to begin, adhere to and get through exercise successfully! There are so many psychological benefits as well as health benefits but you are right, it IS very mental. It sounds like you are maneuvering your way through to a comfortable, fairly successful place and that is the key!
I gave a talk 2 nights ago and part of what I always say is this: we use our brains all day, everyday at work, in family situations and in life and it’s ironic that somehow people don’t THINK about their exercise. It’s almost as if people think that our heads detach from our bodies during exercise (missing awareness). When people struggle to exercise they think something is wrong with them or they aren’t working hard enough…when in actuality they’ve bumped into a mental or emotional barrier.
I hope you have a great weekend!
Dr. Michelle